I’m Julie Farmer
Funeral Celebrant
Thoughts, Guidance, and Reflections on Meaningful Farewells
Articles from a Funeral Celebrant
Why Writing a Funeral Service Takes Time
Funeral Celebrant in Oxfordshire: Why a Funeral Is More Than a Ceremony There is a quiet assumption that a funeral is simply a formal goodbye. A date to arrange. A service to attend. A chapter to close. As a funeral celebrant in Oxfordshire, I know it is far more than...
A Funeral is more than a ceremony written by a Funeral celebrant in oxfordshire
There is a quiet assumption that a funeral is simply a formal goodbye. A date to arrange, a service to attend and a chapter to close. As a funeral celebrant in Oxfordshire, I know it is far more than that. A funeral is often the first structured moment a family has to...
What does a Funeral Celebrant really do?
When families begin planning a funeral service, one of the first questions they often ask is, “What does a funeral celebrant actually do?” It is a fair question. At a time when emotions are raw and decisions feel overwhelming, understanding the role of a funeral...
The Quiet Responsibility of a Funeral Celebrant in a Personalised Funeral Service
There is a moment before every first meeting with a family where I pause. Not because I am unsure of my role, but because I understand the responsibility that is about to be placed in my hands. A family is not simply sharing information with me. They are entrusting me...
How to Write a Eulogy To Capture the Small Things – and Why They Matters
When I write a eulogy, I’m always struck by the power of small, seemingly unimportant details. Families often tell me, almost apologetically, “There’s not much to say, really,” or, “They didn’t achieve anything big.” But the truth is, the quiet moments are what make...
The quiet responsibility of holding a family’s story during a funeral
One of the most important parts of being a funeral celebrant is understanding the quiet responsibility that comes with holding a family’s story, even for a short time. Every time I meet a new family, I am reminded that they are handing me something special and...
Why Stories Matter: The Legacy of Words, Wisdom, and Warmth
Why Stories Matter: The Legacy of Words, Wisdom, and Warmth When we think about what we leave behind, our first thoughts often turn to material things a home, savings, possessions. But the most valuable things we pass on are far more human. Our values, our...
5 reasons why you should write your funeral service before you die
Most of us spend our lives planning. We plan holidays, birthdays, retirement, even what we’re having for Sunday lunch. But when it comes to our funeral, many people prefer not to think about it at all. Understandably so, death feels distant, uncomfortable, and often...
Direct cremation: the simple, low-cost option for a no-fuss funeral service
A direct cremation is a type of cremation that does not involve a funeral service or visitation at a crematorium. A funeral home, crematorium or independent funeral director can arrange a direct cremation. The crematorium can take the body 24 hours after death as long...
How to Prepare Yourself for Attending a Funeral for Your Mother or Father
Attending a funeral for your mother or father can be a difficult and emotionally draining experience. It is important to take the time to prepare yourself mentally and physically for the event. Grief comes in stages, and you must allow yourself the time to process your feelings. You also need to make sure that you are taking care of yourself as well as others who may rely on you during this difficult time.