Every funeral service I lead is personal. There is no template and no expectation that your farewell should look or sound a certain way. What matters is that it feels right for you and honours your loved one with dignity and respect.

Personalised Funeral Services

A personalised funeral service allows space for memories, music, stories, and quiet reflection. It can be traditional or contemporary, formal or relaxed, religious or non-religious.

I work closely with families to understand who their loved one was and what mattered to them. This includes listening carefully to the details you share, helping you choose music and readings, and shaping a service that feels authentic and meaningful.

My aim is to ensure the service reflects the whole person, not just the dates and milestones of their life.

Writing and Delivering the Eulogy

Writing a eulogy can feel daunting. Many families worry about finding the right words or fear they will forget something important.

I take time to gather information, listen to stories, and gently guide the process. The eulogy is written with care, accuracy, and warmth, reflecting the person’s character, relationships, and impact on those around them.

If a family member wishes to speak, I am happy to support them with structure and guidance. If you would prefer me to deliver the eulogy on your behalf, I will do so with sensitivity and respect.

Celebrant Led Funeral Ceremonies

As a celebrant, I lead funeral ceremonies that are calm, well structured, and thoughtfully prepared. This includes:

Meeting with the family to discuss the service
Writing the ceremony and eulogy
Liaising with the funeral director
Guiding the service on the day
Ensuring the ceremony flows smoothly and respectfully

Families often tell me they feel reassured knowing everything has been carefully planned and taken care of.

I work collaboratively with funeral directors, valuing clear communication, reliability, and mutual respect.

Funeral directors who work with me know that I prepare thoroughly, respect timings, and support the smooth running of the service. My aim is always to complement the care already being provided and ensure families feel supported at every stage.

Planning Ahead

Some people choose to plan their funeral service in advance. This can be a thoughtful way to ease the burden on loved ones and ensure your wishes are clearly understood.

Planning ahead allows you to choose your music, reflect on your life, and leave messages or thanks for those who matter most. I offer a calm, guided service to support this process at your own pace.

A Service That Feels Right for You

There is no single way to say goodbye. What matters is that the service reflects the life being honoured and supports the people left behind.

If you are arranging a funeral, planning ahead, or would like to talk through your options, I am here to help.

Get in Touch

You are welcome to contact me for a confidential, no obligation conversation. Together, we can talk through what you need and how I can support you during this time.

Julie Farmer
Forget Me Not Celebrant